In every relationship there comes a time when the same daily routines can make the relationship a bit on the boring side and these routines slowly takes a toll on the relationship.
So even in the soulmate relationships things can become predictable and we tend to get bored or find things about our partner that may irritate us. However there are things we can do to keep the flame going and get best out of your relationship.
Listed below are key elements needed in a soulmate relationship.
1. Being silly with your partner.
Being silly with your partner should be your top priority, make things fun and don’t let life get too serious. So why is this very important? Me and my partner act very silly at times, we have funny nick names for each other, we act out silly comedy that we have watched together and remind each other how funny it was, we do silly accents.
This does sound childish on the surface, but really it does stop tough times creeping through, or being too serious about work etc… When things start being a bit serious we revert to being silly.
2. Always be Romantic with your Partner.
Contrary to what some might say romance is never dead. You would be surprised how good it can make your partner feel, a romantic day trip or dinner can make a big difference.
Taking time out of your work schedules to take pleasure in your relationship can work wonders. Oh ladies that means you as well, it should not just be the man who would do the romantic gestures, there needs to be balance.
3. Be unpredictable.
The best way to break up daily routines is to do something unusual to break patterns in your relationship. Why not take an unplanned trip somewhere? Surprise your partner once in a while with a small gift, or go out somewhere.
Being unpredictable will break up daily patterns in your relationship, just don’t try too hard to think of ideas, go with the flow of what you feel.
4. Try something different.
When you have day off from work together, do something different instead of what you usually do. If you’re always going out, why not stay in and spend some relaxing time together. Or go out somewhere if you always spend your time indoors; if you’re always relaxing in the city why not go out into nature.
5. Do different things when you are apart.
It’s very important you do some activities away from your partner. If you do everything with your partner then there is a tendency when boredom might set in. You should spend some time apart and do things you like and enjoy.
Remember that time when you were dating and you only saw each other few times a week? You missed each other. When you do start living together, there is usually no missing each other, because you are together most of the times.
So it’s crucial that you have activities that you do on your own, take care of yourself by going to the gym, sports etc. This way you give each other a chance to miss each other and keep things fresh.
Soulmate relationship can be fun as long we don’t let daily routines make the relationship boring, keep things fresh by changing activities around. Have the element of surprise for your partner, be unpredictable. If you found this helpful please leave a comment.