Does He Love You? Here Are 10 Ways To Find Out! – Guest Post

So you’re falling for him, and the last thing you want to do is get your heartbroken, which is why you are dying to know if he’s feeling the same way about you.

Well, now you can stop wondering and get some real answers by going through these 10 clear cut ways to know that he loves you for sure.


Even though all of us have a different idea of what love is or should be, some of us might not be able to recognize the signs when the real deal comes along.

Since love can sometimes be a really tricky thing to understand, having a helpful list of 10 signs to look out for or 10 ways to find out for sure if he loves you or not, can be pretty handy.

You’re probably eager to find out what those are, so let’s have a look at the top 10 ways to find out if he loves you!

1. He Puts in a lot of Effort

This is a very simple yet very effective way to find out if a guy’s really interested in you and that he truly loves you. If he cares about you he will do anything and everything to make sure you’re happy.

If a guy really loves you, he’s not going to make excuses not to come or not to do something you’ve asked him to do, and he’s not going to put everything else in his life before you, or treat you like you’re not a priority.


2. He’ll Ask for Advice about His Life

If a guy values your opinion and asks for your advice on important decisions he has to make, it means that he fully trusts you and can lean on you.

It can also be a good indicator that he’s already in love with you since he wants your input on the important decisions that he needs to make.

3. He’s Including You in His Plans for the Future

If the guy you’re dating lets it slip that he wants you both to travel or possibly live together in the future, or he’s including you in future plans or trips, like weddings and similar events, planning to be with you in the following weeks, months or year, then there’s a good chance that he’s already fallen in love with you.

4. He Remembers the Small Details

If a guy really cares about you, he’ll take an interest in your life and make an effort to remember your schedule and your daily ritual.

He’ll be interested to find out more about your job, your parents, and your friends and he’ll want to be in the loop about all of those things.

5. He Wants To Please You

Even if he has to do something he’s not really fond of doing, he’ll do it for you, just so he can please you and make you happy.

If a guy loves you, your happiness will be the most important thing to him, and you’ll know it is by the way he treats you and cares about you.

6. He Takes Initiative

He doesn’t wait for you to call or text him back. Instead, he takes initiative and surprises you with dinner reservations, a picnic, a short trip or a fun night out.

This can be a clear sign that he loves you and believes you’re worth the effort.

7. His Actions Will Speak Louder Than His Words

Although he can say that he loves you and cares about you, making you feel that he truly loves you is a whole different thing.

If he loves you his words will align with his actions and you’ll be able to feel his love through his the things he does for you and how he behaves around you.

8. He is Committed in All Areas of Your Life

He is committed in all areas of your life, not just the ones that are convenient for him. His commitment is obvious in his words and in his actions and he makes sure you know that you can count on him for anything.


9. He Talks To His Friends about You

If he’s in love with you, he’ll likely use every opportunity he has to mention something about you to his friends or often share something the two of you did together with them.

If you notice that his friends know a lot about you and your relationship, you can take is as a clear sign that he cares about you and wants to share how he feels about you with his friends.

10. He’s There through the Hard Parts

He sticks around when things get a bit tough to handle, and even if you’re having a fight he’s willing to communicate and work things out with you so that you can find common ground and manage to save your relationship.

We know that the last thing you want to do is fall in love with someone and then find out that your feelings aren’t reciprocated.

If you follow these 10 simple ways to tell if he loves you, you’ll be able to tell if the guy you’re investing emotionally in and giving your heart to loves you back.

And if you’re still not sure whether or not your man’s love is real, you can always consult a professional love psychic who’ll be able to put your mind at ease and give you solid advice about your relationship or your love life in general.

Written By: Marija Krstova

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