Emotional attraction is the deep emotional connection that causes any relationship to last a long time. It is the force that keeps a man attracted towards a woman.
Physical attraction is something else and might end as the time passes; however, this emotional attraction is everlasting and the man knows that he cannot live without her.
There are so many things that a woman can do to make the man emotionally attracted. Here are 6 highly effective tips for you:
Be A Man – Emotionally
By being a man, we don’t mean that you should start comparing yourself to him. Instead, be a man in the emotional matters.
Things you might say to him commonly are: you don’t love me! You don’t care for me! Can’t you see I am hurt? And so on. Have you ever seen him talking to you this way? Exactly not!
If he is with you, and doing simple things to make you feel happy, then surely he loves you and cares for you. Yes! He can’t see your hurt because there’s nothing he did to upset you. You do tones of these things every day but does he complain?
Be A Good Listener
It is a common misconception that man doesn’t share how they feel! They do, it’s just women don’t let them. Whenever you get a chance, ask him how he feels and listen carefully to whatever he is saying.
Don’t interrupt or argue. If you listen, he will become used to it and start to tell you more and more.
Be A Good Talker
Listening is good; it doesn’t matter only in a relationship; you should be good at talking too. You should also tell him how you feel at the right time. Don’t hide your feelings in fear of being betrayed. A complete relationship always requires two-way communication.
Complain Less and Appreciate More
Women complain a lot. They forget all the beautiful things men do when they make one mistake and keep repeating that issue until the men get fed up. The complaining nature of the woman makes it hard for the man to stay.
It is better that you stop complaining about simple problems again and again. Instead, try to appreciate what he does.
Don’t Be Pushy
When you are establishing a long lasting relationship, don’t push your partner to do anything. At the start of the relationship, things are quite good, and both people want to leave their comfort zone to make the other feel comfortable.
However, that’s not going to last long. Sooner or later, everyone wants their comfort zone, and when things start to change, couples fight without realising that they want the same thing.
Respect His Choices as Well
That’s true that you are an independent woman, but your partner is becoming possessive without hurting your comfort zone, then listen to him. If his attitude changes in the presence of your particular colleague, try to remain away from him in front of your partner.
If he likes you in a particular colour, wear it often. Never make his choices your ego problem. When you can’t respect his decision, speak about it with him rather than going against it directly.