What is a deeper spiritual connection with your partner?
If you have walked the path of awakening or in the process, you might have shifted from a self-fulfilling relationship; wants and needs; aligned – to a relationship that nourishes your soul, creating a deeper spiritual bond with your partner.
To develop such a relationship, you must first develop the relationship with yourself. As you begin to expand your consciousness, your consciousness about the other person expands to. From focusing on yourself, you begin to focus on the other person as well.
Let’s delve in a little deep on how to build a deeper connection with your partner –
Become the best version of you
In a relationship when you have to constantly prove yourself – the power dynamics, the control theory or being better than the other, trust me you are only losing it all to the feeling of power and there is no bond between the two of you. In a true spiritual relationship, you will understand that there is no need for power and control, you both are individuals and have all the free will to express yourselves as you want to within your relationship dynamics.
As you accept the sense of equity between the two of you, your understanding becomes better and you create a sacred space in your relationship.
Don’t let your past define you
Past hurt, baggage, wounds, relationships – this is one list we have and carry all our lives, however, we must understand that it is very important to cleanse it all for our ‘now’ to be beautiful. For any spiritual relationship to grow, both the partners have to have an open heart to accept the other in their true essence. All you have to do is heal your past hurts, forgive and move on. Have faith that all of it happened for a reason and if not for those experiences you will not be here. This said let go of your past to truly embrace your present.
Your relationship is sacred
As you are sacred to the Universe and it expands to all your surroundings, your relationship is sacred too. It is something between two individuals to build, strengthen and grow within, together. As you realise the sacredness of your union with your mate, you will understand that it all happened for a reason. Spend quality time with each other, communicate as much possible. Try and create that space for each other wherein both of you are comfortable to be who you are. Respect the fact, that you are together, be thankful and manifest abundance for self.
Intimacy is important
Intimacy is about ‘feeling’ it all to its depth and not merely for pleasure purpose. Intimacy and touch are very important aspects. On a spiritual level, exploring the physical aspects of one another strengthens your energy chords and help you build a solid foundation. These energy chords hold the intentions of two individuals, it is very important that both the parties have set their intentions right and are willing to send love and light to each other.