Do certain painful experiences, such as repetitive bad relationships, come into your life on a consistent basis? Is there anything that you have done in this lifetime that you have regretted because it may have hurt someone else?
If you answered ‘Yes’ to any of these questions, then you will finally be able to cut off all ties to any past karmic relationships!
Universal Laws Supersede Manmade Laws
All man-made laws are superseded by 20 Universal Laws which keep us living in harmony and balance. Within these laws, every action has a reaction and through these counterbalances, we learn how to attain inner peace and harmony in accordance to these Universal Laws.
Karmic Relationships and Soul Contracts
Most people have some sort of karmic relationship with someone else and in many cases, with a lot of people. Before we incarnate to this planet, we create a soul contract in which we make agreements to heal past life karmic relationships.
For example, If I was an abusive husband, in my next lifetime I would make a soul contract with my wife to come back and do it all over again but the next time around, I would be the wife who was being abused and my wife would come back as the abuser. These types of contracts are made for the sole purpose of learning the repercussions of karma and most importantly, LEARNING from your past life mistakes.
One must ask his or herself if this is the reason why there is child abuse? Is it possible that the abused child was the abuser in a previous lifetime? Was this part of their soul contract?
When I was a young teen, I was hit with a strap before I went to school for something I did, which I honestly don’t remember. Back then, this wasn’t necessarily considered child abuse. I tried to escape getting hit but the belt caught me across the back, diagonally, and left a mark there. On that day, I had a 4th period gym class, so in between 3rd and 4th periods, I went into the men’s room and noticed the strap mark was still on my back. I ended up skipping gym class because I was too embarrassed to let anyone see that mark. It was on that particular day that I swore to myself that if I ever had children, I would NEVER hit them.
Have you ever heard about a parent saying, “This is going to hurt me a lot more than it hurts you” before they punish their child? This is most likely coming from a remembrance of when they made their soul contract with the child they were about to punish, because when we are on the other side of the veil, there in only unconditional love. It may also involve remembering, through your cellular DNA, what is was like in a past life to be the one who was being abused.
As it turned out, I had a daughter, whom I have never hit and I have forgiven my parents who volunteered to teach me this lesson through our soul contracts.
This is how you end karma. Is it possible that I was the abuser in a previous relationship? In my opinion, yes. Has the wheel of karma ended? Yes. While I would never approve of hitting anyone under any circumstance, I completely understand why my parents had to hit me and they have been forgiven as well. In retrospect, I am grateful for that experience because I, essentially, volunteered to end this wheel of karma for all subsequent incarnations.
The most important aspect of the Universal Law of Wisdom
This is how the Universal Law of Wisdom works. Time and time again we find ourselves in repetitive patterns and cycles, yet we keep making the same mistakes.
The most important aspect of the Universal Law of Wisdom is to release the other person (or people) from the wheel of karma by forgiving them with unconditional love, not necessarily to the other person but for the lesson learned and for the experience no matter how bad it may have been.
Many people have a hard time understanding this, especially in cases of child abuse. In this 3rd dimensional reality, we all chose to experience duality and polarity. In some cases, it was especially cruel an inhumane. Why would someone choose to experience this?
Before we incarnated here, we were on the other side of the veil and the only thing we felt was unconditional love for one another. When we made our soul contracts, duality and polarity were long removed from our current state of unconditional love. Because of past life mistakes that we have all made, we decided to come back and experience these mistakes from the other person’s perspective, so we made a soul contract with that person to resolve these issues. At the time, it seemed like a great idea to finally put an end to the wheel of karma, but once we incarnated here, the pain from the lesson blinded us from the the original loving intent we had when we made the soul contract, and inevitably, created even more karma for those who did not learn from these lessons.
Past life regression hypnotherapist, Dolores Cannon once stated, “People keep coming back to this incarnation over and over again because they keep making the same mistakes.
Karma is like molasses, you get stuck in it easily. Did you ever make the same mistakes over and over again? (eg relationships, finances, etc…) It’s time to release the negative karma.”
According to Cannon, the best way to release karma is through forgiveness.
Learning from the pain
Here is another example: I started dating a girl who ended up going out with a person, who I considered to be a good friend, behind my back. At first, I was pissed off and thought to myself, “So that’s how the game is played. I’m going to cheat on every girl I meet.” But fortunately, as an introvert, I turned within and thought about how that experience made me feel and it was that day that I swore to myself that I would never make another person feel like that.
Is it possible that I was the person who cheated in a previous lifetime? In my opinion, definitely. Has the wheel of karma ended with her and me? Yes, and I thank her for teaching me that lesson.
This may be the hardest thing you’ll EVER do!
If you have been through any bad relationship in your life, please consider releasing that person from the wheel of karma through forgiveness and unconditional love. This may be the hardest thing you have ever done in your life, especially if the relationship was abusive. Please keep in mind that it is very possible that YOU were the abuser in a previous lifetime and that you agreed to come back in this lifetime to finally end this cyclic relationship of abuse by taking the high road and ending the karma during this incarnation.
Also please remember that this doesn’t necessarily mean that you need to unconditionally love the person who you had this relationship with, but to unconditionally love the lessons learned through these experiences and most importantly, to finally put an end to all karmic relationships with that particular person for each and every lesson you have overcome.
By using the Universal Law of Wisdom, you can finally put an end to ALL karmic relationships.