Distance is the cruellest killer of a relationship.
It’s tolerable to get over a person who cheated on you or made you feel miserable, but it’s excruciating to lose a soulmate because of geographical reasons.
It drives you insane, makes you feel helpless, and corners you into a dark pit of pain, where you are left alone to sulk in your abject loneliness endlessly.
It’s rare to meet someone who complements you in every sense of the word, someone who makes you feel like you are on cloud nine.
People rarely stumble upon someone who makes them feel like home. And when that home relocates, your soul shatters into tiny smithereens.
Not everyone is emotionally resilient enough to deal with the bruising effects of such a separation.
Going through Immense suffering is worth the trouble!
However, enduring this pain for your soulmate is worth it. People spend their whole lives in pursuit of their better half.
For most of them, this desperate search ends in failure. So, it’s stupid to lose hope, when you know that your soul mate is still alive and breathing.
As long as you know they are well and alive, and there is no point in giving up on them.
Constant reminders and Keeping in touch is key
Long distance relationships are hard to navigate. They require spiritual and material balance.
You have to remind yourself the worth of your soul-mate constantly.
You have to keep on replaying the fond memories you made with them inside your head.
The truth is that, sometimes, reminders won’t help.
Misunderstandings and assumptions will swarm your mind.
So, it’s important to make time for each other. A simple phone call or a text message will do wonders to sustain your love.
Envisioning a future together builds up hope
Soul-mates who are oceans away from each other plan the future together.
This gives them something to look forward to. They plan on buying a house for their kids and pets one day or studying together at a college.
These positive thoughts fill them up with hope.
Purging your mind of misunderstandings
One thing that distance creates is misunderstandings. You don’t know what your soul-mate is doing or who they are with.
When a person is kept in the dark, he becomes presumptuous. So, it’s essential that soul-mates stay in touch, clear out confusions, and give each other reassurances.
Otherwise, it’s all going to come crashing down.
If you believe in the plan of the universal source, then you’ll learn to let go of your soul mate when the time is ripe.
Because, if you’ve drained all your options and it’s still not working the way you want it to, there’s no point in putting yourself in overwhelming mental pressure.
If you’re meant to be with your soul-mate, then you will be with them in the future, one way or another.
When soulmates lose their connection, they think all is lost, but that could not be farther from the truth.
You can always reunite with people at the right time and in the right place. All you need is a firm conviction.
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My situation is i met her online in all places, she is actually a cousin of my best friend and thank God he showed me her Facebook. Well not really , he was showing me a picture on her sister’s facebook page, which my BFF was going to try to hook up with one of our close friends. When they were going to vacation in Thailand and Laos(sadly i couldn’t go).
Also what’s so funny is I never really believed in soulmates until a month before all this happen. By chance I ran into my ex at a casino which i rarely go to and to top it off i don’t go to any casino at all, was far from where i lived. My ex and me had this strange connection, also met in the strangest of ways but that is another story to be told, our interactions was very explosive in nature for a lack of a better words(one of a kind).
I was playing a slot machine and this random girl came and sat beside me(did not know it was her, hair was blocking her face and the machines were kinda staggered). For some reason I couldn’t keep my eyes off her, my gut was telling me i knew who she was. As i was thinking this my body could not stop vibrating, my head pretty much went numb, buzzing in ears. Seconds later she got up and walked away before i could see her face, but later i got a chance to see who it really was only because she kept walking around me. After i found out i got the hell out of there with my buddy. She cheated on me by the way so you can understand why i wanted out(plus she is married now). That was probably about 11 years ago and i never seen her since until this random day at the casino.
Later that night out of curiosity while i was at home i did a few google searchers to try to find out what the hell happen to me at the casino and why my body reacted like that. Believe me i was clueless, has never happen to me before. After some research i concluded that she was my Twin Flame lol i think anyways…the whole soulmates and twin flame subject is very new to me.
Ok back to the topic
At first I didn’t think much of her, until i came back to her page one day, on the day of her 22nd birthday, I was 31 at the time. I didn’t know this tho and to be honest i did not find her that attractive at 1st i been to her page a few times before. Only because she kept showing up as the 1st person on top of people you may know tab. One day i was going through her photo until i landed on a photo that was rather of high quality and i finally got a good look into her eyes, then this feeling came over me as if i had looked into those beady dark brown eyes before.My gut just kept telling me you know her!!, you know her!!, I’ve always listen to my gut over the words of other, I have a a lot of trust in my gut.
As the months flew by I still couldn’t shake the feeling that i met her before somewhere someplace and thought i was going insane. Because come on now Facebook really…of all places and from a photo… It took me about a year to finally sum up the courage to try to talk to her. I just wanted to finally conclude if she really was my soulmate or not. Also i should mention we don’t speak the same language, well we do but i forgot how to speak my mother tongue FML… not to mention i had no clue how to read or write thai text but thank the Gods for google translator. Took me few try to get her to understand me and find out who i was because i don’t keep photo of myself on my facebook.
Anyways now we are talking, it has been about 6 months since we connected i have asked her about how she feels about me, she tells me she loves me more then she loves her mother and wants to get married, also think we are soulmates. We talk effortlessly its almost as if we have always known each other even tho we don’t quiet speak the same language. I’m learning how to speak Thai more and more everyday from self study. Oh also i do understand this is Thailand where women are always looking to hook up with foreigner and i’m still very cautious of that fact. She tells me she has told her mother and friends about me and they all like me from what she she telling me. To be honest i trust her with blind trust but some reason i feel i can just trust her.
The distances is painful at times and i been wondering if i can keep this up i was about to tell her today maybe we should stop speaking. I could talk to her non stop, trust me if it were in English, the language barrier doesn’t help much. I was just thinking that if we really are soulmates it wouldn’t really matter if we were apart or not. Because in the end the universe would bring us together. I don;t really know how she going to take it tho, she pretty crazy and attached to me, but i love it :D.
After reading this I think I well hold off on that choice for a bit see how things play out thank you so much for this articles. Hope you enjoy my story thanks again.