Often there is a twin flame age difference, we wonder why this is? We can learn more about this by understanding things from the beginning.
When the Universe was born, and along with it conscious beings, in order to create a physical plane, our souls had to break into two in order to enter a physical body. This is how twin flames were born.
Twin flames, it should be said, are entirely different from soulmates. Soulmates are different souls that come from the same fabric. In the physical plane, they come in the form of friends, mothers, siblings, and sometimes as lovers.
Twin flames, however go deeper than that. Twin flames are two parts of yourself that have to find each other on the physical plane in order to elevate again into a higher consciousness.
Most of the time, it takes several lifetimes for twin flames to find each other on the physical plane. It usually depends on how well you know or recognize yourself.
In each of their lifetimes, twin flames have a silver thread connection that ties them together, and they eventually find each other. However, recognition is a different matter altogether.
When you haven’t taken the time to know yourself, it is most likely that you won’t recognize yourself in another person as well.
Why is there a twin flame age difference?
Twin flame relationships are more intense than other relationships. As they combine to an elevated consciousness, it becomes a challenge to love two parts of yourself.
It is no surprise then that there are more obstacles that come with twin flame relationships. It might even result to twin flame separations.
When both of you are not ready to own both parts of yourself, the world lets you go through several other reincarnations in order to prepare yourself even further.
These relationships are rare, to begin with if only because recognizing your twin flame is a challenge in itself. It takes several reincarnations before two twin flames meet in the right time and space. This means that you might meet your twin flame at a different stage in his physical life.
This will entail vast differences in age, culture, and upbringing among others. Because you meet on the physical plane, all these differences might prove to be a challenge.
However, it is important to realize that you are not meant to be together in this plane. You are meant to achieve elevated consciousness.
Twin Flame Age Difference: You reincarnated at different times
It also means that you will have to consciously break the barrier built by this society. Twin flames can have big age differences of about 10 to 40 years. While your souls were born at the same time, it may have gone into the physical plane at a later time, which results in this huge age difference.
If you age gap is less, that means both of your souls have synchronized themselves in order to make meeting easier, although this isn’t always the case.
While the connection is palpable, one of the twin flames may let fear get in the way and deny the connection.
As a more mature twin flame, your job at this time is to be patient and understanding. Be present in his or her life but do not force the issue. You will eventually find yourselves more prepared in the future.
To summarize We know that twin flame age difference happens because we have reincarnated at different times, our life experiences were different. Other elements include our karmic cycle and stages of death/rebirth cycle, that’s a discussion for another time, we leave you in peace. Namaste.
There’s a 7 year difference between my TF and I and I am so grateful that it’s working out for the both of us. We still need to work towards a life together though: I have to undo a lot of stuff but we both feel we need to do this. There is no running from either of us, just life getting in the way and saying goodbye is the greatest pain I’ve ever felt.
I found my twin flame almost 4 yrs ago and i knew we were meant to be the moment i met him. Our eyes met , i was floating in his presence like nobody else was around not even our new boss that introduced us(we met at a new job).it has been rocky, oh yes it has, but we better each other. I have so much to say about this nbut we are like magnets from day one and cant be without each other. A wonderful feeling, our souls are as one it seems.
I forgot to mention he is 11 yrs younger than me, we even favor each other. Talk about mirror yes we are body and soul just one male and the other female. Wondrous feeling when im in his presence even if we have a disagreement
My runner is 12 years younger which seems to be a factor, but, if he is truly my twin flame, would that be a factor? I was so sad when I had to tell him my age. I look younger but the difference seemed to be a negative to him. Also, I am the female so it seems to be less acceptable. He originally found me at my work. We we finally met, he bear hugged me, then I kissed him. I didn’t plan on doing that and that is very out of my character. I do not remember anything about that kiss. The memory of it has never be available to me.
He is highly spiritual and I was not at all. I realize now that I was not ready for him. He has a pure and free spirit and mine is muddled with life. After we met, I immediately lost a lot of weight to the point of being gaunt. I started to have what has turned out to be awaking symptoms including kriyas and I have gone through and continue to go though an incredible transformation.
He is choosing not to talk with or see me. I’ve asked him to please do me a big favor by telling me to go away, but he won’t. I’ve finally allowed myself to be ok with just checking in with him every few months. Sometimes he reply’s and sometimes not. He sees a therapist and suggested I see one too. I do now and it will be how I clean my house for him. I have hopes but no expectations. I sometimes have doubt, but I know that he is my twin 🙂
Good luck on your on your journeys 🙂
Can we get an update? How are you now?
There is 24 years between us, we have known each other for 7 years and we became close quite quickly. We became lovers 4 years ago and lived together for 3 years. Now we are separated but see a lot of each other being best friends. We have a lot of synchronicity.
We share the same interests and values, yet I am emotionally explosive while she is reserved, I am tidy, she is messy lol
I truly hoped we could stay together
Well- I’m 62 & my twin is 33.
I’ve found myself the runner as I am aware of the strong chance he not fully kind to himself. And So I blocked him after a transgression. He broke through that block & made it clear he needs at the minimum my friendship. Well- we have a heavily sexually charged relationship. & it’s amazing now I love me & him so much. Let them go & enjoy it like it’s the best day of your life when they’re around. Because it is.
what do you mean, “not kind to himself” and transgression please?
I’m 32 years older, and I met him through my daughters. There was an instantaneous pull the first time i saw him, before we ever met. We’ve been texting several times daily for two years now and have met for lunch a couple of times. I don’t believe this lifetime will be it for us. He has a lot of work to do, struggling with severe existential anxiety which makes it difficult for me to even broach the subject of TF with him. Lately he’s helped me realize that my work is far from over as well. Another matter is that I’m physically attracted as well, which I recently talked to him about. All he said about it was that I have to realize that my desire will remain unfulfilled. He didn’t deny an attraction himself, but I know that even if it exists for him, given our age difference and feelings he once had for one of my daughters, he would never let his mind go there. I reassured him that our connection goes far beyond the physical. This TF age gap is hard. While neither of us has run yet, and wouldn’t it be nice if we didn’t, the urge has been there for me recently. It’s difficult for me to watch him long for someone else , and I know one of the issues he’s here to help me with is jealousy. So right now my goal is, while not abandoning him, to take a step back and work on fixing my own issues. It’s the best way I can help him as well. And there’s comfort in knowing that no matter who he’s with, and no matter who I’m with, the thread that binds us won’t be broken.
The butterfly lands more easily upon the open hand then the closed fist.
‘When the Universe was born..’ it say’s..
For real? The Universe, God, is Eternal.
I never spoke to my love of him ‘being my tf’, because he is my love, not a Twin Flame.
Twin Flame is an understanding, where some parts is spiritual explained and some parts is humanly explained.
And so the humanly explaination differs so much, because as many people, so many views.
When people are trying to make money out of it by tarot card readings etcetera, it’s just one way of fixing it by humans outside God.
But it is wrong.
God is the only One we have to turn too.
I think I have met my twin flame, we have 12 years age gap,. The first time I saw him, I already knew that he will be part of my life, I don’t know when and how, but I’m pretty sure that he will be. There was a strong connection between us. I tried to resist it but I failed, he was very eager. The challenge was he is already married and I am currently engaged with my long time bf, I broke up my engagement waiting and hoping for him to do the same, since his married life was unsuccessful based on him. Unfortunately.. I am still waiting it’s been almost 1 year, and I am little by little I wanted to surrender.. However I still find my self drawing back and loving him more intensely. I can say we are actually opposite that merely completes us, he was an outgoing friendly type of guy and I am a home buddy and let’s say not so friendly.. We definitely need each other. I nver thought before that twin flames exist until this 1 big fight that we have, I asked for sign.. I just asked like I don’t know why I am so into this guy, so I asked for a sign to gave me atleast clarity on what I am been going through.. Then wat I saw was this 1:11 on my cp.. At first I can’t understand.. Then this 11:11 again so I researched.. TF do exist and I strongly believed he is my TF. When I shared this to him.. He was curious bec we share the same intense feelings.. Said he knows it.. And ask me to trust the process.. I am and I will.. I was just so afraid on the what ifs.. Of life.. I hope I can change that I deeply love him with all my heart and oul.. I find home and peace when I am with him.. I loved him unconditional and accepted who he was as a whole.. Spirit of the eart pls guide us and help us to be together.. Synchronicity is very evident.. We share the same soul urge number 11..
I thought my situation was weird because there is 20 years but thank goodness others have shared big age gaps also. We were so instantly connected. It was so intense amd amazing. He ran from me not long ago and im not sure he will be back because He went to school with my son. He denies us to himself and everyone else. It looks like I got to enjoy him fir a short time this time. Mayb the next life will be better and I can keep him longer