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What Happens When The Twin flame Chaser Gives Up?

What happens when a twin flame chaser gives up? Being a twin flame chaser is an arduous struggle. You have to seek someone who constantly rejects your loving embrace persistently.

But, perspective matters a lot in this situation. Is the runner fleeing from the chaser, or are they trying to run from themselves? Because no one in their right mind rejects love.


Only, when our lives have been tainted with the stains of our past, do we deny healers and saviours.

Runners need Time and Space

Runners go through a period of intense anguish. They might be the victims of parental abandonment or societal rejection.

They might have suffered bullying at school or physical or emotional abuse from one of their ex-lovers. When someone who accepts them wholeheartedly finally arrives in their life, they are unable to come to terms with it. They feel like it’s a hoax, and that, once again, they’re going to be the subject of disappointment.

Pessimism plagues their mind to such an extent that they’re unable to decide between right and wrong. Such people need personal space and time to resolve their emotional problems. Cornering and pressuring only exacerbates their plight.

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The period of healing starts after a chaser lays down their arms

When the twin flame chaser gives up and lets organic events run their course, everything falls into place.

Sure, it might take time for the runner to realise how wrong they were to reject love in the first place, but it’s a lesson they must learn alone.

When they are left alone to heal, not only do they overcome their troubles, but also attempt to pursue the chaser.

Twins are bound to end up together

Once you’ve tasted the love of your twin flame, nothing else satiates you. You don’t rest easy until you’re in their arms once again.

The whole universe exhorts you to advance towards your destined lover. The chaser gives it all to resist the runner’s love, but in the end, all of their attempts render futile.

At the very end, they accept that they can only find meaning and purpose in life if they accept their flames’ love. Otherwise, they are never going to attain inner peace.


Let the universe do its thing!

It’s always better to let events run their natural course, instead of forcing things. The universe has a plan for all of us, and especially for twins.

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It deviously conspires to align their fates. But, they must also understand each other’s reason. Otherwise, they’ll only end up prolonging the inevitable, extending their torment in the process.

Love is one of the things that can never be forced. Twin flame love is fiery, unstable and intense. It needs time to destabilise itself.

So in the end, the chaser’s surrender is a good thing. It catalyzes the return of the runner. Love isn’t meant to be forced to begin with. It’s liberating, not constricting!

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10 thoughts on “What Happens When The Twin flame Chaser Gives Up?”

  1. I like this because it’s very true. I am the runner in my case and I was given the time I need and left multiple times due to the past relationship abuse which was also true. And now we are working on things together me and my twin flame more in love than ever. Every experience we have had was very worth it.

  2. Question ? How to you give up? Surrender ? Lay down your arms? I been trying this for quite awhile ,,,,to no avail I am totally emotionally burnt out ,,,it’s been years ,,I’ve given the space ,,,no contact bullshit,,, all that is left is this big empty hole in my heart and soul,,, nothing or no one excites me like her ,,,,this has to end !!!!,she is either my twin flame ,,or for some reason I love her too much ,,,and lost my mind lol

    • You are so right there. I need some advice and I know she’s my twin flame she knows it as well. But comes up with excuses the whole time. I won’t love another person the way I do love her. And the universe isn’t always with me

    • Dear Pat

      I and many chasers, we hear you loud and clear. It s painful, hurts like nothing out there, but the only solution is for you to let go and heal your own wounds. Your runner will wake up and start healing once you let go. Then you will both start healing at the same time. When this is done you shall come together. Remember aeroplane- flying rule, you need to put the oxygen mask on your face first before you can help somebody else. I only understood that once I started to heal my self, once I gave up on my twin ( I am a chaser). It s not easy, but once you start the process of recovery it will all come together. I have had everything from my twin, from seeing her being in other relationships, getting married, having a child by others, also getting abused by my twin…you name it, I got it. After almost 4 years, Finally, I understood, I have to heal, I have to enjoy life without her, and only then she will start loving her self and me. The key is to love yourself, only then Universe will bring you together
      Be assertive, love yourself first XXXX Sam

      • Hi….been there….done that…..for decades…..back to peg one…..rejection again……heartwrenching……no end to heartache….no matter what I do……

    • You have to realize their journey is important for them, love unconditionally. Agony sure but ego’s aren’t broken easily, they resist until the pain overcomes the fear

  3. I gave up, I am focusing on myself. I am also important in this strenuous journey.
    I stopped consuming and exhausting myself, this became possible.
    I am very grounded and at peace.
    To reach to this point, I guess I had to go through all that suffering and chaos.
    There is a strong sense of “Time will tell…”
    I am doing what I love to do, I enjoy my time.
    Universe will take care of the rest.
    I have reached to this solid Faith.

  4. Good morning
    I’m not sure about all this. Yet explains what is or could be wrong with me Here is my story
    Twin was adopted at birth We were never to know They didn’t know I would grow up and want to understand this inner feeling I couldn’t explain There was no word in my vocabulary to explain this dreadful feeling It drove me crazy. I just wanted it to stop….I need to understand it then disconnect it Like looking for an elect cord that’s invisible I have tried to give it up as I too have gone down every road ,knocked on every door ,asked many questions Looking for what Why does no one know nothing Ok so maybe I’m crazy …maybe there’s something wrong with me….I am different no doubt about that , sounds like to me you guys know you have this flame. Wtf am I to do with this

  5. It’s ridiculous trying to explain the term twin flame to people from where I come from. I am dead sure my twin doesn’t know anything about this “words”. Well, I am the chaser in this regard and I have never been complete the way I feel with this Lady. To make matter worse, I am married but this vacuum in my heart, only she can fill it with this unique love.


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