Every relationship has its problems. Although a twin flame connection is considered as the topmost bond between the two individuals, it is also not free from problems. Like the love in this relationship, twin flame problems are also very much devastating. Some problems are mild and can be solved by communication. But, some issues should not be neglected and require proper counselling to get solved.
The biggest problem in the twin flame relationship is that one person feels a deep association with another person and doesn’t want to leave them under any circumstances. This makes the other person more influential and stronger. Sometimes, this strength leads to abusive behaviours and one continues to bear them for the sake of the love and to carry on the relationship.
There are many cases in our surroundings when one twin flame becomes a victim of verbal or physical abuse on a daily basis. Whether there is a mental manipulation or physical, both are incredibly wrong, and nobody should become a victim. There could be many reasons for the abusive behaviour of the twin flame: aggression, being abused during childhood, or want to overpower the other.
Twin flames have a deep connection; that’s true, but it doesn’t mean that one should be abusive. It might feel like that relationship is significant and living your life this way is better than living away from your twin flame, but you are wrong.
Your twin flame is sick and needs help and so do you if you want to continue the relationship. You might feel shattered on the thought of leaving that individual, but the truth is nothing will change them; not even your powerful love and simplicity of bearing their narcissistic behaviour.
An Abusive Relationship Might Not Be A Twin Flame Connection:
The powerful attraction with immediate initiation of the relationship doesn’t mean that you are in a twin flame relationship. Karmic relationships start exactly the same way as any twin flame relationship.
They have an intense attraction that makes you feel that you cannot live without that person. When physically involved, no other thing seems to make sense. Abusive behaviour is one common characteristic of these relationships as well. One or both individuals are using each other to fulfil their desires.
Twin flame relationship means that your counterpart will help you to achieve your life goals, and not take you morally down. It never leads to crying nights with signs of abuse on your face or your body. This relationship doesn’t result in fear of being beaten or being a bad person in front of others.
In all the twin flame problems, abusive behaviour is the biggest because the victim doesn’t want to get rid of the issue. Instead, they want to stay, and that’s what makes the abuser even more powerful.
If you are in any such kind of a relationship, leave right away. If you are afraid of what he could do to you if you leave, seek help from the authorities. There’s no way that your twin flame could hurt you. That person could never be your well-wisher. You will suffer till your last breath.
People don’t really understand what Twin Flame is.
Everyone has a soul family that they interact with through many life times.
Everyone has many soul mates – that they interact with through many life times. Some marry a soul mate for one life time. Some marry several soul mates in one life-time. When Karma is fulfilled, we move on to others helping them fulfill theirs along with more of our own.
We only have ONE Twin Flame. It’s very seldom that our Twin Flame is living on the planet or same plane as us at the same time. Most often our true Twin Flame is in a higher dimension and is one of our guides and guardians for the life we are living now. It is time now in this Universe that we will indeed ascend and be with our Twin Flames again. Until then, if we really want a companion, we have the companion ship with a soul mate.
Do ‘soulmate’ connections as opposed to Twin Flame connections, follow the same general stages of progression eg. Reunion, Dance, Runner/Chaser, Enlightenment, Harmony?
Generally not, but sometimes karmic and dark flame soul connections can appear very much like that. They normally become more toxic, on and off again if they are allowed to continue. They normally are meant to teach you lessons particularly about self love, boundaries and healing