There’s nothing more special and exciting when meeting someone new than discovering that you have intense mutual chemistry.
The chemistry here refers to that unquantifiable “click” that some people just have from the start.
Want to know if what you’re experiencing is intense mutual chemistry?
Here are the signs:
1. Magnetic Pull
From the moment you met, you felt this pull towards each other.
2. Eyes All Over Each Other
We can fake facial expressions and body language to hide our true feelings, but the eyes are the window to the soul.
Your eyes are all over each other, and you often share little glances and momentary eye contact – even if it makes you feel a little bit vulnerable to do so.
That’s a feeling you don’t mind with each other.
3. Your Bodies Speak The Same Language
Physical chemistry includes sexual chemistry, but it’s so much more than that.
From the way you like to hold hands, the way you like to sit, the speed at which you walk and the amount of physical contact you like, you share the same physical preferences (or they at least are compatible) without having to state them.
4. Conversation Comes Naturally
We all know when we don’t have chemistry with someone because conversation with them becomes a bit of a chore.
Not so when you have intense mutual chemistry. You could talk with them all day and all night and all of the next day too – if having to get some sleep didn’t keep getting in the way.
You never run out of things to say to each other, because no topic of conversation is off limits.
5. Silence Is Fine, Too
On the other hand, your intense chemistry also allows you not to talk and still be communicating.
Silences and lulls in conversation that would feel awkward or pressured with anyone else feel peaceful and relaxing with them.
You could start a new discussion or you could not, it doesn’t matter as long as you’re together.
6. You’re Always A Bag Of Nerves… Until They Arrive
Whenever you’re about to meet up with them, or you know you’re going to see them, you get butterflies in your stomach and can’t keep a smile off your face.
As soon as they have arrived and you’ve said your hello’s, all of that nervousness evaporates, and you feel entirely at home with them.
7. You Can Push Each Other’s Buttons
Finally, you know exactly how to push each other’s buttons – but in a good way!
It’s so easy for you to work out what makes them tick that you know exactly how to get on their nerves.
But doing so doesn’t annoy them in the slightest, and it doesn’t annoy you when they do it back.
By pressing each other’s buttons, you are revelling in the fact that you know each other so well yet so instinctively.
And it’s the instinctive knowledge of each other that makes intense mutual chemistry so special.