Need advice on Twin Flame reconciliation?
Reuniting with your partner after a period of crisis and separation can be difficult, but there is a lot of guidance we can give you.
The stakes are much higher in this special type of karmic relationship than they would be in a mundane relationship.
Getting it right is easier when armed with the wisdom of those who have walked this path already.
Let’s begin with the reasons behind your separation:
Twin Flame Separation
Many (if not all) Mirror Soul couples go through a period of separation after they initially start dating.
It follows the crisis, which is when the honeymoon period is over, and the seriousness of the connection you share starts to sink in.
This reality check draws out insecurities, old wounds, and other problems that could threaten the relationship.
It’s at this point that one of two things happens. Either the problems are worked through and solved, or the Separation Stage begins.
One partner runs from the relationship.
If the latter is the case, then there is a good reason. There is always good reason in karmic relationships because they are purposeful.
The reason you have separated is that you are not ready for Union just yet.
This delay is always down to old wounds.
Problems from the past have a way of rearing up now and again to scupper anything good going on in your life. Being underprepared is a threat to your relationship, so separation is simply the safest option.
Dealing with those problems will allow you to reconcile with them and bring yourselves into Union.
But what are those problems?
What Is Preventing Twin Flame Reconciliation?
When the Runner runs, the Chaser can think of nothing but chasing. Therein lies the problem.
In their fervor and passion for their Mirror Soul, many Chasers do more harm to themselves and their partners than they do good.
Chasing too much is often the number one thing keeping them apart.
Your Runner needs space to work out what is happening to them.
Think about it. While you may have had plenty of knowledge about the whole Mirror Soul experience and the journey you were embarking on when you met, they may not have.
At least not to the same level.
You were prepared for this. Not entirely prepared – nobody ever is! – but it was something you knew could happen.
They did not. They were entirely blindsided by fate and now they have all of these feelings that they barely understand.
You need to allow them the time and space to work through what is happening on their own.
Because you are supposed to be in a forward-looking relationship that does not dredge things up from the past, you must be over the events in your past in order to enter the relationship.
That applies to them, too. You might be at different points in your development, and, unfortunately, you might just have to wait for them to catch up.
Speeding Up Twin Flame Reconciliation
There are many ways you can speed up the process of reconciliation and bring your partner back to you sooner rather than later.
Depending on your personal circumstances, some of these will be more effective than others.
If you remain on reasonably good terms, in contact, and not constantly screaming at each other, then you are in a great place to speed this process up.
What you have to do is commit yourself to honest communication with them.
You feel strongly for them, and they need to know that, but honest communication is about listening as much as it is about talking.
You need to know how they feel. If they are willing to talk about their feelings, then be there to listen, but don’t try to jump in and solve every problem they bring up.
They need to be heard, not patronized.
The key is to show that you are there in support of them.
Your goal may be to bring them back to you, but in order to do that, your goal should first be to support them through what is a difficult time for them.
Yes, it is also a difficult time for you. Yours won’t end until theirs does, and theirs won’t end with honest support with no strings attached.
It can be a bit more of a challenge if you are not currently speaking with them.
They may have made it clear to you that they don’t want you to contact them or be around them.
If they have, then you should clearly accept that and keep your distance.
This doesn’t mean there is nothing else you can do.
They still need the support you can offer them. It’s going to be a bit more difficult without being able to speak to them directly.
For this, you can use your telepathic connection.
All Twin Flames share a telepathic link that they use to communicate.
Most of the time, it is subconscious, but it can also be used consciously.
Sit down once per day and meditate on love and light. As you are doing so, send some of that love and light to them by saying their name out loud.
Affirmations like “I send [name] love to help them come to terms with the past and move forward into the light” can help.
This will help to speed up reconciliation by assisting their growth.
They need to grow before they can return, so any way you can help them is going to benefit both of you.
Above all, be patient. There is no reason to rush if you risk pushing them away.
You can’t rush love, destiny, or fate – all you can do is be there when they conspire to bring your Mirror Soul back into your life.