Michael J Robey
1 minute ago
[img]http://www.spiritualunite.com/PF.Base/file/attachment/2016/09/c3c309c9d9d85d58e5c2351f701e0ed7_view.jpg[/img] "Men Are From Mars " And "Women Are From Venus" Or Are They ?? In these times of spiritual enlightenment, equality and greater independence, the traditional viewpoint of roles in relationships between men and women have radically changed. Roles of both men and women in society and in relationships were previously clearly defined. But this was based on a patriarchal society values dominated by men. As we move into a new matriarchal golden age, women are becoming much more emancipated, independent, free thinkers and powerful. While men are losing their grip on power, having to adjust and redefine themselves to the new age,of equality of the sexes The redefining of roles has also brought about confusion for both men and women, as the traditional rules have changed. Men are having to adjust to be more empathetic to women's needs, as they express them more freely. They also need to be more involved in family life, caring and raising children,housekeeping etc, as women are more often becoming equal breadwinners. Partly due to the average single salary no longer matches the needs of the family and women are, quite rightly,now geared to being far more career minded and independent breadwinners from the outset of their adult life. Women, on the other hand, are also having to manage dual roles of running the family, having careers and increased independent social lives. Which has meant for them having to change their roles to compete equally with men socially, career wise in the business world as well take charge of the family, particularly if a single parent. These changes in roles have completely redefined the dynamics of male / female relationships. Traditionally men and women think and act differently. i.e although some may say this is a generalization. Brain Hemispheres Many men are sharply left-brain dominant, while women tend to be more evenly balanced between left and right-brain processing. Women are, therefore, thought to be generally more intuitive, and sometimes better communicators. Men are often less socially adept, and are more project-oriented thinkers than females. Men generally think in boxes. They have many boxes. Each has its own logical place and wired connections So a special woman in his mind has its own box, which he will open when and where it suits or stimulated. Men also have that secret box. - The "Nothing Box". It's man's favorite box. Why? Because he doesn't have to do anything in this box. It's his own comfort box. The "Nothing Box" can be incomprehensible to a woman, because she doesn't really have one, and perceives it's existence as a way for men to shut down and avoid her. Woman asks the question:. What do you do in this "Nothing Box"? Man answers in irritation and dismay: "Nothing of course! " That's why it's called a "Nothing Box" !!!!" So within the "Relationship Box" he has, he will make it as big or small, complex or simple, as he is able to cope with. If the woman he desires fits into the "Relationship Box" and its comforting, he will want to fill it up with more and give more. Women brains are far more complex! There is a mass of wiring all connected together, all working at high speed, switching on and off, maybe ten or more, at any one single moment, multi-tasking..The wiring is either ordered or haywire, depending on her emotional and physical state. So with a "Relationship" there are many emotions, feeling and thoughts going on at one time, as well as dealing with every other aspect of her life. Men cannot comprehend this, as any attempt to do so would cause instant implosion. This irritates most men as they cannot understand why women need to think, feel so much. Man asks question: "Whats the point of driving yourself and me crazy??" Woman answers: "You just don't understand do you?" Man answers: "Nope... There you go again!! " and thinks lets go back to my "Nothing Box", where it's safe. Relationships Women are purported to have better communication skills and emotional intelligence than men. Women tend to be group-oriented, and apt to seek solutions by talking through issues. Men can have trouble picking up on emotional cues unless they’re clearly verbalized – making for tricky communications between the sexes. Woman generally like men who look and seem strong, yet caring, gentlemanly, a good smile and pretty teeth. Woman get aroused by a man's smell, be it his cologne perfume or simply his designer suits. They like sharp razor men, especially very clean good shoes! All women's eyes always roll down to a man's shoes upon meeting a man.They are very observant and catch all details on a man's face, while women wear their masks better and firmer. Women don't like pushy men, that means making a woman do or feel uncomfortable to do, see or act. Basically caring is very important for a woman. Men get an inferior complex with strong attractive women. Men will show strong confidence and have a mask on always, but once they see or meet a strong woman, the man often cant handle it. A strong woman means : She Feels good. Sees good, Hears good, Smells good! Tastes good! That scares most men. They have to overcome that fear to play in the fire.! Basically its the five senses woman have in her. Don't mess with her! She is fire! Come too close one burns! Now to spot a strong woman is not easy either. Women are very good actors on stage! Men universally crave women who stay light-hearted and relaxed. Especially when things get rough. Unfortunately this is very rare for a man to find, and it’s equally difficult for women to learn how to do this if they have a history of getting overly-emotional. If you lead with a sense of humor when things are not going well, it can instantly turn your love life around and spark emotional attraction again. Men universally desire youthfulness in a woman. Youthfulness is an attitude. It consists of things like innocence and childlike energy, and this is something that stimulates men on a subconscious level. Men like to see a woman being able to express positive emotions. body language that subconsciously tells all men that you’re irresistible and you know it. Most women don’t understand that becoming emotional freaks most men out and causes them to close down out of fear. Most women try to “control” their emotions, but their emotions always come out sooner or later, whether directly through crying or anger, or indirectly through aloofness or other games. Men are purpose and goal-oriented. They value the vision they want to create in life above all else. So when a man meets a woman, he secretly hopes that she will relax with his path, whatever that may be. Physical beauty is the outward expression of the energy of femininity, which men are attracted to; This is why beauty is so powerful to men. A smile tells a man on a gut level that you’re receptive and no smile says you’re “untouchable”. A woman who is present, that he can look into her eyes and see that she is with him right here and now and not thinking about a million thoughts is highly attractive. Men are drawn to women who live a life of love, positivity, joy, creativity and keeps worry or fear to a minimum. Unfortunately many women live in constant fear, worry, self-judgment, guilt and anxiety, due to negative experiences in life. A woman who is light-hearted, filled with love in her heart, is one of the most desirable quality a woman can possess with men. Game Play A strong woman loves to play games. So if she rejects a man, but still wants him, he has to figure out the game play. Not easy as she makes up all the rules. A bit like Russian Roulette. Damned if you do. Damned if you don't . Hit the right button out of many and BINGO ! Men have fewer initiation buttons and most work. So there's a bigger chance of hitting the jackpot! If a woman suspects that her significant other may be playing one on her, all is not lost. Mind games are played for many reasons. If she understands how and why he is pushing her, she will be able to play the player at his own game and come out ahead. The first reason why a man might play them is just to test his woman—her love, loyalty, emotional capability, understanding, and intelligence. A man may also play them when he really wants to obtain something from his significant other and knows that the only way he can make her consider doing it is by messing with her emotions. a real player. These real players or masters of the game have recognized how vulnerable emotions can make people, and they are using this shortcoming to their advantage.Yet other men play games simply because another man may also be playing games or he knows it can be fun. Such a man may purposely stir the waters just to watch a woman react or become off balance. Stress When faced with stressful situations, men usually employ ‘fight or flight’ tactics, while women use a ‘tend or befriend’ response that is rooted in their natural instincts for caring for their children and establishing strong group bonds. Men need their alone time. Men reduce stress by forgetting about their problems. It's sort of a mini-vacation. We all know how taking a vacation helps us forget our everyday problems. Interestingly, women reduce their stress by talking about their problems. So women need to understand that men need to reduce stress in a different way. Emotions Most women and men aren't clear about what they need and don't know that their primary needs are different; this lack of communication and awareness can cause emotional resentment. Since women tend to have a larger deep limbic system than men, they’re more in touch with their feelings and are better at expressing their emotions. This makes women better at connecting with others, but unfortunately also more prone to different types of depression. Men are generally more guarded with their emotions. Deep inside a man is a need that what he does has a positive impact on a woman. A man needs to feel that what he does has meaning and purpose. So how can a woman help a man in her life in this area? A woman needs to show and express confidence and appreciation for the little and big things a man does. She should tell him that she appreciates how hard he works, that she appreciates his assistance in the home. Criticism simply drains a man of feeling trusted. Appreciation fulfills a man's sense for meaning and purpose. When a man knows his efforts are appreciated, he's naturally encouraged to do more. Men's independence and isolation sometimes leads to women feeling emotionally abandoned.A woman's primary emotional needs are caring, understanding and respect. A woman needs to educate her man on what her primary emotional needs are in a positive way so she feels cared for and like a priority. It's the time together that's most important to a woman. Women often feel that they're giving and giving and giving, and aren't getting enough back. They ask, "So why should I meet his needs?" Men often feel, "I'm doing so much for her and all she does is complain." Men can then give up, believing that nothing makes her happy. It can be truly difficult to understand and accept our partner's different set of emotional needs. Men and women need education on these differences to help their relationships. Sexual When referring to sexual attraction, everything starts from the mind! Men have as much as 20 times more testosterone in their systems than do women. This makes men typically more aggressive, dominant and more narrowly focused on the physical aspects of sex. Traditionally, with men testosterone drives the "Man Trance"-- that glazed-eye look a man gets when he sees breasts for example. Women may wish that they say that men can stop themselves from entering this trance. But the truth is, they can't. Their visual brain circuits are always on the lookout for fertile mates. Whether or not they intend to pursue a visual enticement, they have to check out the goods. To a man, this is the most natural response in the world, so he's dismayed by how betrayed his wife or girlfriend feels when she sees him eyeing another woman. Men look at attractive women the way women look at pretty butterflies. They catch the male brain's attention for a second, but then they flit out of his mind. Five minutes later, while the wife or girlfriend are still fuming, he's deciding whether he wants ribs or chicken for dinner. He asks them, "What's wrong?" and the woman says, "Nothing." He shrugs and turns on the TV. The woman smolders and fears that he'll leave her for another woman. He also considers he must act masculine and be more dominant in his approach towards women. In men, the dominant perceptual sense is vision, which is typically not the case with women. All of a woman's senses are, in some respects, more finely tuned than those of a man. Women are not, in the main, turned on by pictures of nudes . . . Women may be aroused by pictures of couples coupling. Because what they are seeing, in however sterile a sexual context, is a relationship in action. Women are not excited by a picture of male genitalia by itself . . . Men like female genital close-ups in porn magazines because it is a thing to which they can imagine doing things to. Sex for men is vastly impersonal. Pornography is simply meat for men. Do they ever wonder who the nude is? Not for a moment. They wonder what they would do to her. Men want sex, and women want relationships. Men want flesh and women want love. Just as boys wanted balloons, toys, and carburetors, the girls have always wanted contact, communion and company. The female mind is organized to place priority on relationships, the male on achievement. Men keep a tally of their sexual conquests. The female brain is not organized to keep sex in a separate compartment. This is a male model. As if his brain has a specific filing cabinet for sex, completely unrelated to emotion. Women, too, are excited by visual erotica, although women are not as turned on by it as men are. Women are much more aroused than men by romantic words, images, and themes in films and stories. Women's sexual fantasies include more affection and commitment. Women often dwell on their own emotional reactions. And they are more than twice as likely to think about a sex partner's emotional characteristics. . . . Flowers, oils, candlelight, satin sheets, fluffy towels: When women fantasize about sex, they conjure up the textures, sounds, and smells, all of the ambiance surrounding sex, more regularly than men. Women also like more kissing, hugging, stroking, and cuddling during sex. In short, women place the act of intercourse within a wider physical context. Sexual Orientation In these enlightened times, sexual orientation is no longer clearly defined. The rightful liberation of gay, lesbian, transsexuals etc. within society, has also brought new dynamics to relationships and interaction within couples, families, work and social life. But is has also brought confusion into the soup of traditional roles between men and women. Some people don't really know who they are anymore. In Summary The issue in these changing times of enlightenment, from patriarchal to matriarchal society values, is that there is a greater expectation for men to act and think or at least be more considerate of women's ideals. And as women are becoming more independent, liberated and career minded are having to adopt more traditionally masculine ways of thinking and acting. Both women and men need to understand, relate to and interact differently when they think and act in terms of relationships. It is not simply a case of saying or acting like "You don't understand me" and then a parting of ways. It's a case of "We might not understand each other, but we are willing to try use all our senses, understand the "boxes", the "complex wiring", the "nothingness", "the fullness" etc etc, for a united path of love and respect for our differences and similarities." Communication stops between husband / wife, boyfriend / girlfriend, because there is no LOVE only assumptions, judgement and selfishness. Hence, one might say, where as "Men are from Mars " and "Women are from Venus" and neither do the twain meet . Now "Men are from Mars trying to be Venus" and "Women are from Venus trying to be Mars" and everyone is even more confused. At some point when levels of human consciousness polarity raises to a higher level of spiritual enlightenment and oneness,. "Mars" will converge with "Venus" a Ying Yang Convergence. Love is the core to heart ! Love that stays strong flows, all emotions flow together, e.g : faith, love, kindness, humbleness. With love you are full! Like after a delicious meal! Love is what keeps people together by feeling love in heart ! Love is not just saying "I love you" to your partner ! Simply - Love is - Feel it, Taste it, See it, Share it !!!! "We all come alone and go alone Karma makes you meet / greet / actions ! So do good, see good, be good. Love ever. Hurt never. Love all. Serve all" Words of Sathya Sai Baba in Puttarpathi http://www.psychic.gr/single-post/2016/09/05/Men-Are-From-Mars-And-Women-Are-From-Venus-Or-Are-They- Michael J Robey Psychic.gr Psychic Medium | Psychic Investigator www.psychic.gr #love #relationship #relationships #men #women #man #woman #Mars #Venus #spiritual #enlightenment #equality #dynamics #dominant #leftbrain #rightbrain #male #female #gameplay #stress #emotions #sexual #sexualrelationship #sexualrelationships #emotion #masculine #feminine #sex #fantasize #sexualorientation #communication #sexes #yingyang #oneness #heart #psychic #mediumship #channeling #remoteviewing #awareness #consciousness #higher #meaning #life #psychicgr #michaeljrobey

Michael J Robey
3 minutes ago
[img]http://www.spiritualunite.com/PF.Base/file/attachment/2016/09/c24c5c6f21b8015eede44297270969d5_view.jpg[/img] Overcoming The Victim Mode What value is there in keeping our past alive, especially when it wasn’t so great the first time around? This may seem a strange question but it is very true. When we allow ourselves to live in"victim mode”, we are keeping our past alive and preventing a future of happiness and fulfillment. How do we live in "victim mode”? We do things like undermining our own ability to do certain tasks, we become angry, make ourselves sick, sabotage good relationships or attract and keep unhealthy relationships. The choices we make that activate our "victim mode” are subconscious and automatic. They are triggered by common responses that occur regularly in everyday life. They are so automatic that we often do not even realise we have triggered them. We can recognise them easily because these responses usually start with a negative statement such as “I can’t, “I won’t”, “But” or “No!” Every time we allow ourselves to be victimised or if we choose to put ourselves voluntarily in victim mode, we are reinforcing the victim inside of us. Even when we stand up for ourselves against threats, we are often reinforcing the belief systems that support our victim because the method we use for standing up for ourselves is based in fear. It is a reaction against rather than a chosen action “for”. So what can we do to get past "victim mode”? We need to look at our "victim mode” as a game we play with ourselves. We need to stop playing this game. The first and basic step in getting past victim, is to become aware of how we talk to ourselves. Learn to listen to our own thoughts and what words we use. If the thought is basically negative, victim mode is in place. However, by just changing our wording, the blind barrier of the victim can be transcended. All we have to do is be willing to give ourselves a chance. Choose positive words! We individually are the one and only person that has to listen to our own thoughts 24/7. We are also the only person who can choose how we act out on our own thoughts. We are the only one who end up reacting to our thoughts and paying for our choice in words. We are always the director of our thoughts. We can pick and choose which thoughts we want to recognise and give energy to. We create actions that cause related thoughts to be brought to our consciousness. When we let our thoughts run without any form of management, we allow unhealthy thoughts to have far too much importance. Thoughts are powered by emotion. This is a learnt relationship that developed during our childhood. If we look back at our childhood, we will soon see the relationship and how it developed. The negative thoughts with their emotions will be stronger for us than any positive thoughts. This is because we are more familiar with them and have a more intense emotional history with them than with positive thoughts. Through years of constant reinforcement the negative thoughts will be heard in our head most often. The positive thoughts are there and get to express sometimes but they will often be dismissed or undermined because they lack any kind of emotional punch. So what can we do about this imbalance of power between negative and positive thoughts? Again, the first step is recognition. Recognise a thought for what it is… a thought. It is nothing more than that. We always have the power to choose whether we want to act upon any thought. However, it takes practise to move our mind out of victim mode and to choose the better thought. Are we willing to do it? Are we willing to take the time to listen to the goings-on in our head? Are we willing to become the new manager of our thoughts and stay with it? All we have to do is say “I can”. We are the only ones that can do it. You are the only one who can make changes in your life. When difficult or undesirable thoughts come up this is what we do:. • Recognise the thought as undesirable • Remember that we have complete choice about acting on the thought • If we choose to activate the thought, do so remembering that we are responsible for its outcome). • If we recognise the thought as undesirable, take no action on the thought. • Just let it go! Letting Go! Here are some tools that will help you to let go of undesirable thoughts: • Be aware of your thoughts as best you can (It will not ever be 100% of the time) • Try to focus your mind elsewhere without resorting to using external blocking devices such as drugs, alcohol, loud music, and excesses such as overeating. • Focus your mind elsewhere by singing, whistling, listening to peaceful music, purposeful thinking about other subjects, or exercise. • If you are in a situation that encourages undesirable thinking, get out of it at least until you can get calmed down. The more you take responsibility in the management of your thoughts the more you empower yourself. Be kind to yourself in the process. Beating yourself up for slipping is another form of empowering your victim. No one is perfect. As you become more invested in your own mind management program, you will find that your present life situations may begin to change as well. As you become more aware of how you do your life, you will become aware of how some of the people and the situations in your life support your victim. Eventually, you will be faced with some tough decisions. When you are ready, you will need to help these people and situations to decide whether they are to stay in your life or not. In my books, it is always preferable to keep the familiar in your life, however, they will have to change with you to accommodate the changes you are making or they will not fit any more. As you begin the process of letting go of your "victim mode”, it is essential to include the key people in your life. They need to know what you are up to. They also must support you and will, hopefully, join with you. After all, only victims hang out with other victims. When you get into a tough situation where you feel you are losing your ability to stay clear, if you feel it is necessary, slowly put up your hand like a stop sign and state how you are feeling in a single sentence such as “I am feeling scared right now so I need to stop.” Then stand still in that position and allow the other person to digest your statement. Be resolved to stop. Do not allow yourself to be forced into continuing on if you feel you are not able or willing to. Be sure the other person is aware of this sign beforehand so they do not think you are going to hit them. After all, they have a victim too. The key is getting past your "victim mode”, is your own ability to stay true and loving to yourself. It will take a lot of time and a lot of mistakes but just be fine with it. Remember that our goal is to be happy with ourselves as human beings. We also desire to feel safe. We must get ourselves out of "victim mode” and into our own loving power in order to meet this goal. We must do this by empowering ourselves and supporting others in their journey to the same end. Nobody ever felt safe or truly happy being a victim. Your own personal happiness depends on you making choices that are good for you. http://www.psychic.gr/single-post/2016/07/04/Overcoming-The-Victim-Mode Michael J Robey Psychic.gr Psychic Medium | Psychic Investigator www.psychic.gr www.psychic.gr.com ‪#‎victim‬ #‎victimmode‬ #‎victimised‬ #‎happiness‬ #‎fulfillment‬ #‎relationships‬ #‎positive‬ #‎negative ‬#‎emotion‬ #‎emotions‬ #‎relationship‬ #‎thought‬ #‎thoughts‬ #‎psychic‬ #‎medium‬ #mediumship #psychicinvestigation #‎psychicinvestigator‬#athens #athensgreece #greece

rhea dopmeijer
Yesterday, 12:28 pm
[img]http://www.spiritualunite.com/PF.Base/file/attachment/2016/09/c670157dfa178be015ed30bb56f2f6a5_view.jpg[/img]Some days I can feel you closer Coming across old video from last year as well getting in tune with music and songs I never heard to find you there. Amazing how stuff can come together when you least expect it. Watching you going through your changes caused by getting rid of all these layers upon layers. Even your voice had to suffer from it and you disliked the sound of it at the end. It also made me realize this is a trip down memory lane not so long ago and I need to move forward again. Not lingering in the things that have been, nor worry what might come or will be. I have to make a choice, make a decision again over and over even when it means I have to let go of another layer. Every challenge brings up old memories as well experiences along the way. Some happy and some not, some easy feeling others still painful. When you think you can release all emotional wounds in one big sweep, let me tell you from my experience, it takes time to do so. For like the way we are walking the spiral of Life we come across these pebbles along the way. Each representing an experience that has left a mark in our emotional body as well our soul. Sometimes it is a small cut, others go deeper and need more time to heal. The way it has been affecting my day to day life is also about the way I need to have clarity and some kind of control getting there. It is out of my hands is something that is felt literally right now in this phase of my lifetime. Your journey was one that needed to be, as well our journey together. We travelled a long way with many curves as well up hill moments and valley lows. There were times we could read each other’s minds and were telepathically connected. Other times it was if we were finding this wall between the two of us that prevented the immediate connection. Our lives were connected with each other and entwined as well our individual journeys during these years. Both coming from a different background and a different soul’s mission to bring to fulfillment as well. You being grounded and sensitive as well, me being sensitive and grounded as well. You being the musician and craftsman, me the one with the writing qualities and counseling people. All of our qualities were connected with this thread of Love. Enabling us to be not just a couple in Love, we were also learning through the experiences to bring the opposites to the center of our own being. We both had different learning experiences and we were teaching as well learning each other how to handle a challenging situation. Sometimes were extremely difficult, others were comforting and all created a new way of sharing and caring. Our Love evolved along the way not just towards each other. We were happy to be able to do the things we loved, each in our own way. Music has been an important part in our life and still is. So many songs remind me about you. So many lyrics are able to express my feelings and emotions, as they did for you in the last period of your lifetime her on earth. Bringing up tears of joy and happiness together, as well touching the pain and sorrow for the upcoming goodbye. Our language to show and share the depths of our Love between the 2 of us. The music is a magic tool, that is assisting in connecting with you, no matter where you are. It is in the tune, the words, the love expressed as well the translator for emotions and state of mind. There I find your comforting words as well for me and it makes me realize how many people have been going through the same experiences we had together. It enabled other creative minds to put words to an emotion or challenge we all can relate to. I wished I could put in words as in a song how much you mean to me, as well how much you are being missed. Yet close as well in my heart and so easy to find in my memory bank. You can be as close as if you were sitting next to me and I can lean against your breast, or standing on the stairs just a little higher in order to be as tall as you for a big hug. It is in the physical that I miss the contact and the connection to be able to share my love for you at times. I remember those intimate moments we had over the years, where there seemed to be no border between you and me. No way to sense where you began and I ended. As One Heartbeat and as One Organism, two souls that seemed to be as One in those ultimate surrenders of Love and Expression of Self. You, my rock and anchor through my lifetime, are soaring now in another realm and dimension , wearing your own light body. Maybe it’s time for me to hold my own ground, rooted and soaring at the same time. For I know, I stand my ground on this beautiful Planet Earth, deeply connected with her in every aspect. To me this is exactly how we learned and grew together on the physical plane, yet now it is reversed and gets a totally new dimension for the both of us. Once I have grown in my light body, there will be no more veils to hide you from me within the Illusionary material world, as we are being taught. We are so much more and you will be closer as ever before. Then I truly can say, I see you when I see you. Once we are able to see our unique soul imprint energetically we can all see the beauty each of us represents. There are days you are as close to me as if you still were in my day to day moments, other days you are more distant. Feels like you are the observer, not so much the participant. Yet you always are tuned in. In the moments I need to hear or feel some acknowledgement, or just a hug , a song comes up, or a trail of little white bird feathers in front of my feet. Somehow there are always ways to keep me in your loving energy. It is up to me to be aware of them. We all get hints and gentle nudges along the way through our intuition or spiritual guides. I just have to be open, to receive them to make the distance between us as small as possible. That means listen with my inner ears, seeing with my inner eyes and sensing with my inner Heart. There I will always be connected with your soul and our Love. And so it will be done. High Self @RheaDopmeijer © Heartfelt messages 29-9-2016

George Gomond
September 28, 2016
This is what I am passionate about. And intention is to fuse these passions into the services I offer to others. I love to learn and share with others, as a teacher and mentor on various subjects: relationships, live purpose, career or business building, and healing meditations. My spirituality is important to me. My focus is understanding the nature of the non-physical world and communicating with it for myself and others. I have a passion for business management, organizing and maintaining businesses with conscious business practices. I have a deep interest in the environment and the ecological balance of the planet. I believe in healthy living; diet, exercise, meditation, and other healthy life choices. Healing mediations: rewiring beliefs, past lives, forward life journeys, energy balancing. My Intuitive life coaching is about helping you in all of these areas. I offer guidance as a mentor and spiritual teacher. I use my training, experience, and connection to spirit teachers to assistant you.

dingo starr
September 27, 2016
In my climb up the ladder of consciousness, I have had to battle with and overcome numerous forces, both internal and external. And learn profound lessons from those battles. By far the most recurring theme I have encountered during this process is the theme of Love. The word keeps popping up everywhere like those pesky adverts that seem to trail you all over the internet. The lessons of Love always appear in different forms. For example: “Love is all we need.” “Abandon fear and embrace Love.” “Release your resistance to Love.” “Unconditional Love.” Sometimes they even seem to contradict each other! “Love without reservation” and (at the same time) “You owe nothing to anyone. Maintain strong boundaries.” “Trust in the power of Love” and simultaneously “Be watchful and defend yourself!” I had quite a bit of trouble with this, as attempting to love according to the conventional definition has — as I have come to discover — been responsible for the majority of my difficulties in life to date. To the point where I developed an aversion to the word “love”, and stumbling upon it always seemed to bring up unpleasant feelings for me. And yet, Spirit kept bombarding me with it, time after time, again and again. So, recently I thought: You know what? Maybe I don’t understand this “love” thing. Maybe I should sit down with The Universe and get some clarity on exactly what the word “Love” means. And I got the most interesting and surprising revelation, which I am about to share with you. The Love Propaganda Campaign For a long time, we have been living under a cloud of disinformation about what Love really is. Hollywood and popular media have constantly fed us the idea that “love” equals “romance”, or a raging desire for somebody you are attracted to. Love is what makes you kneel down in a public place and propose to your fiance or girlfriend. Love is why you buy expensive gifts, houses or cars for men or women you desire. “I love you. Be my girlfriend.” or “I love you. Be my boyfriend.” “I love you. Marry me.” Even our peers and parents and elders haven’t really helped the situation, because the general prevailing idea about love is that it is a “feeling.” A feeling you have for people you care about. And so, you love your children. You love your husband or wife. You love your dog. You love your friends. You even love your car or your house. But from what I now understand, when Spirit talks about love, it is talking about something quite different from the conventional idea of what love is. From http://www.thomasofthecosmos.com/illuminations/what-is-love/

Preshan Moodliar
September 27, 2016
The Final Frontier Boundless, vast and ever present among all, containing and supporting objects, great and small that rotate like spinning tops, gyrating to the centripetal force, never stopping, always moving, silent and on course. The contents of light are held, bright and burning, molten and primal, life beats upon the breath of god, ever turning the tide of existence within a blue glass cage, meaning is defined by deeds and faith, a book written till the end page. For we fight to have our own, vast or small, it gives us direction to aim our purpose, to answer our souls call, illuminated by light, each a pinprick against black silk, we reach up, our hands spread wide, our reason pure as milk. Prison of everything, mysterious and known, forever growning and yet when you least expect it, it shrinks, forever slowing. Preshan Moodliar 17/11/2010

Preshan Moodliar
September 27, 2016
The Shattered Dream It lies tossed in a corner, unwanted and forlorn, Tattered and torn, it gathers dust forgotten too all, For the darkness blankets it, and none shall mourn, As time passes by, there is no light, even if the sky falls. It remembers when time went quick, and it knew light, For then there was laughter and joy, and a fulfilled quest, When sight was blessed with warmth, and protected from fright, But time moved past, and moments grew few, till the final test. It saw it’s doom laying not far away, with a bright promise and sinister gaze, The object of new affection had stolen away the heart and soul, And it has lost purpose, and so receded into the center of our mind’s maze, Forever lost but always there, it died but never left, existence black as coal. It lays among the cobwebs, moth balls and many a forgotten thing, With hope in it’s heart, that someday, it will be found, and purpose it will bring. Preshan Moodliar 07/05/2011

Preshan Moodliar
September 27, 2016
A Glutton’s Feast At the witches hour, where pans clatter and hunger rumbles, A craving in the pit of the bowel screeches as a new born chick, Shrill and demanding, piercing and tearing, resistance crumbles, With glowing eyes , the stove bellows on, flame tongue lashing widely, mindless like a starving tick. Gusto borne of hungry void, a construct of iron absent of light Is flung with a veneer of malice coating the inside, Bits and pieces rain from today, ragged and bloated to sight, Showers of spice, hot and heavy, like wrath oozing pride. A waft of the mouth-watering morsel infests the nostrils, Seducing, consuming, reveling as a sated snake, Mere moments from consumption … Something is amiss! Desperation sours the scent …. AHH! A bit of despair, just a few flakes. It’s served, on a pristine dish, with chunks of meat, I wonder, why does pain, taste so sweet. Preshan Moodliar 30/07/2014

Preshan Moodliar
September 27, 2016
Strength When the final tendrils of despair are banished by warm light When the bellows and howls laden with chill promise are silenced by life A vast expanse of broken glass, abundant in this blight, A single defiant gesture, loud and strong, echoes through the strife. Slow does it move, straining against everything big and small, The cloying miasma off disharmony is thick, toxic and choking, The very warmth of life’s essence ebbs away, its light growing cold In the encroaching darkness, faith is consumed, and the void … grows. In mere moments, when hope is all but lost, A ray of hope shines from the heavens, blinding all, And from the bowels of the earth, the will to climb at any cost, With each painful, agonizing movement, its and will not fall. Minute by minute, hour by hour, day by day, A spark grows into a flame, never to die, born anew, and debt of vengeance, it will pay. Preshan Moodliar 30/07/2016

Preshan Moodliar
September 27, 2016
Transcendence In a land forgotten by time, and misplaced by space, Stands a mountain, tall and proud and as ancient as the bones of Mother Earth. Broken Spires and deep caverns that echo an eternity in a mournful Dirge surround its face, With shattered peaks and hidden treasures, it’s own purpose shrouded by God’s mirth. Every moment is an event, be it thunder from the heavens, and rumblings from the hells, Its is struck with blows of unyielding might, each greater and truer than the last, From the tip to the root, with endless purpose and reason, akin to Tree of Life and it tells, And the maelstrom encompasses its stout self, and an event of biblical proportions has been cast. Its stands against the unrelenting fury from the ground and sky, unmoved, and resolute in its stand, Every strike tears deep, and the loss is great, but there is a secret that this Bastion holds from fate. For this relic has a purpose and reason be unbowed, for within its core lurks a density, a land, Nay a realm of magic and untold wonder, the Promised Land meant for happiness, and its mate. And so the legend, of a place that stands against destiny and all things real, Only to found, sough and claimed by those who can truly feel. Preshan Moodliar 16/09/16